​So glad you are here!
Being a young woman in a world that seems to have gone crazy is not always easy.  
Did you know that your true beauty and identity can only be found when you surrender your life to Christ?
  It's true!

 You become "special"  to Christ & you are "set apart" as His child. 
Amazing!
This world can through many trials your way, but with Christ strengthening you,
you will always be a winner.  Not only that, you now are part of an eternal family.   
Friends & family in this life often will disappoint you - that is just life. 
But Christ will always be there - you never struggle alone!

​There is genuine love to be found in Christ -
and with so many others who share in His love!  

Take some time and open the Bible.  Read.  If I could suggest the easiest place to begin -
... it was in the book of Mark (a historical account).

Remember, there ARE friends on Christ who would love to connect with you. 
You will be astounded at how your entire world will change! 

​May you discover what is waiting for you and open your heart and life to Jesus Christ.
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​Email me anytime! 
​Blessings, 
​Jo Wilmer

Are you strong enough? 

This world will try to tell you "who" you are and "what" you should be. 
​Are you strong enough to be who GOD desires you to be? 

We all dream of living the "fairy tale"...

the beautiful young girl grows up to meet the perfect guy of her dreams.  There is no sadness or trials, no hurt or disappointment.  She marries and they stick together like peanut butter and jelly.  There are no worries about finances, health or housing.  Both spouse's have families that are happy and helpful and never argue or try to tell you how to manage your marriage.  Yes, all is perfect, and you live happily ever after!  

Right?   WRONG.    Okay, you can wake up now.  

 In the real world our youth is dotted with disappointments and feelings of inadequacy.  We strive to be the admired child who makes her parents proud in all things.  We have our heart broken by someone we imagine as our "our one true love."  Will that perfect guy ever find me?  
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​Looking in the mirror, we are frustrated because our skin is not perfect and our body seems flawed.  A classmate or co-worker may smile at our face, and plot how to undermine us behind our back.  We may need to live through the ordeal of parents becoming divorced or dealing with addiction. 

This world is not the fairy tale we heard as a child.

No, because this is not a perfect world and we must find our "inner" strength to understand this and move on.  How?  There is only one way.  We need a "perfect" love within us.  A "perfect" love that will never leave us.  A "perfect" love that will sustain us when we feel we are on empty.   That "perfect" love is found ONLY in Jesus Christ- if He lives within you. 

Only with His strength can you understand that this world CAN be a world to live, enjoy and find peace.  He has a special purpose for your life and waits for you to give your life to Him.   We are all flawed and imperfect.  But He alone, can enable this imperfect female to become perfect in His loving hands. 

Do you know that He see's you as the "perfect" love?  

He loves you so much and waits for you to ask Him into your heart and life!  When He comes to live in your heart and life, you will see the world so completely different!  You CAN experience an inner joy that is unspeakable & confidence in who you are and your "true" beauty.

  • Do not let the world trick you into thinking you must sacrifice morals & self-worth to fit in .
  • Do not let the world convince you that what you see on TV-Movies is who you should be. 
  • Let God raise you up above all this untruth and show you how you can make a real difference. 
  • Show the world you are confident in dressing fashionably modest and can shine above what the world dictates, while standing firm in morals & faith.   ​ 
  • A real woman of beauty shines from within.  His love fills her with confidence and comfort.


God has a purpose for you - a special life for you. 

He has that special someone for you.  

I tell you from personal experience, your life will be "full" through Jesus!   
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When you face trials, you will not be alone. You can relax and find comfort in His protection and wait for Him to guide. 
  • No more biting your nails about what other's think
  • No more concerns about dating or marriage
  • No more concerns about your future...for He holds all the answers.  
  • He IS your best friend.  He loves you more than anyone.  He will never leave you.   

​Wow, what a way to live... giving all your concerns to the One who created it all!  
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​He can handle it and all you need do is place you trust and focus on Christ. 

Like the caterpillar, you will be a new beautiful creature!

Do you want your life to count...for Jesus? 

We all want our lives to count for something;
to leave our mark when life is through.
But vain pursuits will count for nothing: 
Time will erase what all we do.

 I want my life to count for Jesus, For earthly things will quickly fade.
No need to add to worldly riches; I only seek eternal gain.

 Inside my heart there burned a question, 
​What was I placed on earth here for?
It truly was to build a kingdom; Not of my own but of the Lord's.
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 I want my life to count for Jesus,  For earthly things will quickly fade.
No need to add to worldly riches; I only seek eternal gain.

Leave the worry, concerns and trials to Jesus,  
and HE will make your path known!

Teen years...

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​It begins early.  Looking and judging ourselves in the mirror if we measure up to the standards of the world.  Are we pretty enough, smart enough, funny enough, have enough friends?  All these things try to control our thoughts if we are not grounded in Christ. The answer?  Ask Jesus into your life.  He will fill every "void" and "emptiness." 

Dating...

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Christian girls are looking for guys who have made a commitment to living completely for Jesus Christ.
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Jesus needs to be the center of a guys life before he can take on the blessings and responsibilities of a Christian relationship or, one day,  marriage.

Purity = Regardless of what our society it trying to tell you, it is key to remember that God has called each and every person, male and female, to live in purity and in holiness.  
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1 Thessalonians 4:3 & 7 says,
​​“Now this is God’s will for you: set yourselves apart and live holy lives; avoid polluting yourselves with sexual defilement. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live holy lives”.

Genuine Christian young women are looking for young men who are pure physically, mentally, and spiritually.  

Ladies, choose prayerfully.  :)

College years...

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​Most think of college as freedom from the bondage of home life.  Carefree, parties, alcohol, sex, scouting for that special someone.  It is hard to stay grounded and serious about studying.  There is always temptation lurking around every corner.  Be on guard, read your Bible daily, speak with genuine Christian friends daily and talk with Him daily in prayer.

Newly married...

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​No we don't live happily ever after every day of our married life.


​Marriage takes work. 
Marriages consists of "3."
Marriage is not a contract.
It's a covenant between you, 
    your spouse and God. 
Marriage takes prayer.
Pray "with"  your husband.
Marriage is "personal."  
Never air personal issues.  
​Hold you marriage in high esteem.  
Seek God in all decisions.  
Seek guidance from genuine, mature women in Christ. (Titus Chap.2)
When tempers flare, take time to 
go to a quiet place and ask God
for guidance. 
Both spouses are just human and need HIS spiritual growth and time to learn "how" to be partners in faith. 
 

All I hear is "trust, trust, trust."

God wants you to trust Him.  
It is only by trusting Him that you can fully depend on Him to give you peace, strength and inner joy.  
Sure the things around you and the world can make you unhappy at times, but it can NEVER steal your inner joy that God gives you. 
Trusting God is the most vital aspect of being His child. Relax and trust Him. 
“Whoever is of God hears the words of God.” (John 8:47)
You cannot trust God if you do not talk with Him and listen to Him.  By prayer and reading His love letter to you (Bible) you will come to know Him better.   
When you love someone you desire to be with them, talk with them and listen. 


​the TRUE facts...

Let go and find other faith-filled friends...

Young or old we need friends; but the right friends.  It is vital that you surround yourself with other like-minded genuine Christian friends.  They are there, waiting to welcome you into their fold.  
When we choose to follow Jesus, we are now choosing to live a life that is different than that of this world.  We are different from those who do not know Him.
Find a church youth group or bible study and surround yourself with like-minded eternal friends!  Grow in you walk. 

 
Find your own answers to the GOD question. 

Sadly many have been brainwashed into believing that there is no God. 
Lies and theories have been taught in the educational system that
you can live any way you choose and there are no rules in this life to live by. 

Yet, science proves that there is a Creator.
Many scientists and well respected intellects back this.

Evolution is a theory. Nothing comes from nothing. 
A cell needs intelligent info and organization to reproduce. 
It cannot do this on its own.
Where does that come from?  GOD. 
 
Look closely...don't rely on teachers or professions -
find out for yourself. 
Big Bang?   
Where did the energy come from?  
Nothing produces nothing. 
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We do not evolve from low life and become intelligent life. 
Contrary, life decays and does not lengthen and improve.  

We all age, plants produce and die. 
A pile of metal in a garage does not become a car in 1,000 years. 

The planets and stars are perfectly placed to sustain life on earth. 
Yes, there IS a God my friend, and He waits for you
to come and let Him set you free
from your hurts, burdens and heartache.

Don't let this world enslave & deceive you. 
Find peace and comfort in life. Ask Jesus to live within you.
He waits for you to just ask.   

​Your life will never be the same!